I have heard that absence makes the heart grow fonder , but I think that absence makes your heart stronger . Familiar faces and situations bring forth familiar response and expectations .We often get in our feelings because we long for the attention of others and can’t handle the rejection that comes with it . Free yourself of the cluttered life that you’ve been trapped in . It’s time to take charge of how you allow people to treat you . No need to become violent or step out of character , go into your secret place and have a little talk with the Master .
Sometimes God has to move folks out of your life because you can’t seem to cut the cord . We must stop allowing insecurity to get in the way of our blessings . A lot of people have hidden agendas , like wolves in sheep clothing they bring death in the form of friendship portraying innocence until they can lunge in for the kill . Then you have those people who are like vultures , they are always there and you can’t get rid of them , just circling around and hovering waiting to suck the life right out of you . Many people you come across mean you no good , they don’t care for you or your well being . Finding a true friend is a precious thing and should never be taken for granted .
One thing I have learned in my walk of life is that people treat you the way you allow them to . Not only that , they make time for who they wish to be around ! If your always reaching out and looking to be noticed by others then you need to step back and re-evaluate your priorities . The Lord tells us in the book of Proverbs that we should not be a ” surety” for anyone . Stop making yourself the target of someone else and their misery . Folks will always take kindness as weakness and for granted , walk away and just let them be . Be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might , be bold and walk into victory !!!
Love and Blessings
