The need to be accepted amongst our peers has become a necessity to many of us today , always longing to fit in and be noticed . But to me this need to have someone’s approval is just a means of destroying lives like a cancer , it’s like a form of bullying . People go into deep depression and loose themselves in a dark place .
Why do you need to be liked by others ? What possible benefits would you actually get back ? Why is this so important ? It’s this sort of thinking that causes set backs in our lives and we then forget who we are because now we feel worthless and unloved . I noticed that many people that fall into this category suffer from low self esteem and lack the strength to be themselves regardless of how others see them . Somewhere deep down they lost sight of the most important factor … “themselves”.
We must take life back with a vengeance and learn to love you more than the opinions of others . In order to be happy you must find out what happiness means to you and then take that information and act on it , teaching yourself how to enjoy you . Find that place of contentment from within and embrace it , when you know better you do better . There’s need to concern yourself with the opinions of others because their acceptance is not needed . Love you above all else !!!
Love and Blessings